{"id":1445,"date":"2011-04-02T22:14:33","date_gmt":"2011-04-03T05:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/?p=1445"},"modified":"2011-04-02T22:14:33","modified_gmt":"2011-04-03T05:14:33","slug":"mom-men-and-monster-to-do-lists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/2011\/04\/02\/mom-men-and-monster-to-do-lists\/","title":{"rendered":"Mom, men and monster to-do lists"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mom arrives here on Wednesday for a week. We lost Dad last August, so this is her first solo venture outside of my hometown without him. <\/p>\n<p>Instead of holing up in her house like a weak widow, she&#8217;s staying with me on her way back from New Zealand. She&#8217;s been there for almost a month visiting her sister and nephews. She&#8217;s been able to see places and things my grandmother (her mother) described when she talked about growing up in New Zealand. I&#8217;ve talked to Mom on Skype a few times and she&#8217;s having a ball. She&#8217;s spending her last weekend in Rotorua, checking out all the geothermic pools and catching a Maori Haungi (feast) and live show.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m so proud of her. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In other news, I&#8217;ve turfed my guy. It wasn&#8217;t working out and I&#8217;m pleased that I recognized the path we were taking and decided to leave instead of doing my usual &#8216;hold on til the last hope and get crushed in the process&#8217; thing. So &#8220;Yay me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This week it seems I&#8217;ve been attacked by the to-do list from hell. Every time I look at it I swear it&#8217;s doubled in size. As fast as I knock one thing off it, three more appear. <\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s not fair. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Especially since it&#8217;s sunny outside and I want to go play in my gardens, which technically are on the list, just not a priority this weekend. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Why did I want to be an adult again? <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mom arrives here on Wednesday for a week. We lost Dad last August, so this is her first solo venture outside of my hometown without him. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-randommusings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1445","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1445"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1445\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1459,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1445\/revisions\/1459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1445"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1445"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1445"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}