{"id":825,"date":"2010-07-19T23:24:45","date_gmt":"2010-07-20T06:24:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/?p=825"},"modified":"2010-07-19T23:24:45","modified_gmt":"2010-07-20T06:24:45","slug":"old-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/2010\/07\/19\/old-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Old friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some days you just need to connect with old friends. They know the &#8216;who&#8217; you were before you were the &#8216;who&#8217; you are now. <\/p>\n<p>My best friend, Robin, and I have been friends since we were 12. I won&#8217;t tell you how many years that&#8217;s been, but I will say she&#8217;s my rock. I wouldn&#8217;t have made it this far with out her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My new roommate arrives in 4 sleeps &#8211; I can&#8217;t wait. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s new as a roommate but we&#8217;ve been friends for almost a decade. To me this is particularly awesome because we&#8217;ve lived on opposite sides of the continent for almost eight years. Quite an accomplishment to keep a friendship going that long, I think.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tonight I&#8217;ve spent much of my evening talking to an old boyfriend. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned him before. We dated during a summer French Immersion camp the summer I turned 16 (he was an older man, he was already 16). I saw him at Christmas and had a great time reminiscing and wondering about what ifs.  <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Susan-Nelson-Kevin-Caissie-1982.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Susan-Nelson-Kevin-Caissie-1982.jpg\" alt=\"Susan-Nelson-Kevin-Caissie-1982\" title=\"Susan-Nelson-Kevin-Caissie-1982\" width=\"113\" height=\"150\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-830\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s hysterically funny to me that when we were dating half of my current group of friends hadn&#8217;t even been born. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s been a great measure for me though. He knew me before I let myself get sidetracked. He missed all the years I sabotaged myself and made bad choices (while I&#8217;m sure I still make them, I&#8217;d like to think I&#8217;ve learned a lot and don&#8217;t do it as over anymore). Happily, his observation was, &#8220;Sue you haven&#8217;t changed a bit.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>If only he knew. But it was gratifying to know I&#8217;d managed to find my way back to me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I have lots of new friends too. Folks I&#8217;ve only know for a few years or in some cases a few months. I treasure you too. I&#8217;ve seen us all grow and can&#8217;t wait to see what happens next. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some days you just need to connect with old friends. They know the &#8216;who&#8217; you were before you were the &#8216;who&#8217; you are now. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-randommusings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=825"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":839,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions\/839"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suenelsonbuckley.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}